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Rick Foerster's avatar

On your question... "What are you going to do now that you have a shit ton of money?"

As you know, leaving an old identity behind is very hard. I get it. But also... there is a serious lack of imagination in most people.

Like, you can do ANYTHING, and you continue doing the same thing that got you here? Maybe pick up a paintbrush. A guitar. Or if you really like doing what you're doing, then how about doing it with zero money-motive in mind? Just do your thing for free, and you'll realize how freeing it is.

Sorry for the rant (I know this area...), but If this is what we call ambitious, then it's not ambitious enough.

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Jen Vermet's avatar

Love your curiosity Matt. Such a generator of ideas! You’re not alone with the back and forth with caffeine. It’s challenging for me to discern “what does a healthy relationship with caffeine look and feel like?” Currently I drink a cup of green tea around noon every day. It sort of is a reset to my afternoon. I like to drink hot water or herbal in the morning as my placebo.

Also I’ve been having some conversations with other nomads around Thailand about a desire to seek for romantic love but the current norms make it feel like we’re going upstream. I think another issue apart from the thorough list you mentioned is transience and how accessibility to travel makes seeking partnership feel unrealistic with current trends. Sure there could be less transient places than the island I’m on in Koh Phangan but still there way more transience/ moving between cities/ countries now than for my parents who met at a local watering hole. I don’t drink alcohol so I’m just not realistically going to meet someone at a bar which used to be prime for initiation of the mating ritual for human behavior.

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